My name is
Steven Burns and I am not some tall, dark,
handsome, naturally silver tongued smoothy who has
always been known to have ‘the gift of the gab' in every
social situation they have ever graced…I'm not some
flamboyant, flashy extrovert who is constantly the life
and sole of the party, I don't have the charisma of a
Bill Clinton or Barrack Obama and I'm not a relationship
guru...
For the past 10 years I have been helping people make
changes in their lives using a combination of NLP (Neuro
Linguistic Programming), coaching and hypnotherapy and I
currently run one of the leading NLP Training companies
in Scotland, Solutions in Mind...
Up until 2 years ago I lived a fairly safe, secure and
stable existence...I was in a long term relationship (9
½ years), earned a decent income and had enough variety
and excitement in my life to keep me contented...
Then…all of a sudden…out of the blue...the safety net
collapsed from underneath me…
After 9 ½ years the relationship with my girlfriend
ended…
Given my background in self-help, NLP and hypnosis I was
hugely positive about the whole thing at first
but all too soon the inevitable realisation hit me…
Re-adjusting was going to be a lot tougher than I
thought...I began examining my social circle and
the cold facts were startling...I really didn't know
that many people! Those I did know were either
married, in long term relationships or business
colleagues...The fact of the matter was my social circle
was pretty minuscule and I had only been out a handful
of times in the 2 years previously…In short, my
opportunities to meet new people both male and female
were severely limited and my levels of social skill
and confidence just weren't up to
scratch...
As is always the case, though, in turbulent times there
are always lots of hidden treasures that come to the
shore…
That by experiencing a really tough time, I was
fuelled with probably the most intense desire to
turn things around I've ever had and may ever
have in my entire life…
Add to this my knowledge and experience of NLP,
change psychology and the human mind I started to
head in a completely new direction...
In the two years that followed I embarked on a mission
to become as socially comfortable and skilled
as I could…From renowned female flirt
coaches, experts on attraction and international
authorities on charisma to acting classes,
approaching strangers in the street, dating and
organized social events…I immersed myself into it with
the aim of absorbing every bit of learning I could…
I then combined these learning's with what I already
knew from 10 years experience in NLP, hypnosis and the
self-help field…I started examining the limiting
beliefs that had been bubbling under the surface,
developed techniques for boosting my own self worth
and value and explored how to let go of
social fears and replace them with feelings of
confidence and self-belief…
Using NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) I modelled
people who were socially confident, skilled
and able to generate attraction effortlessly with
both male and female...
What I was looking for was the differences that made the
difference...The most important elements when it comes
to meeting new people, being comfortable with who
you are and radiating attraction from the inside
out....
This is The People's
Coach Guide to Social Confidence....An
accumulation of 10 years experience in the fields of
self-help, NLP and hypnosis and 2 years experience on
the dating and social scene focused into helping people
expand their social circle, become supremely socially
confident, comfortable with who they are and
radiate attraction from the inside out...
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Social Confidence is how Comfortable, Socially Skilled and Attractive you are around people...
It's about:
• Being confident in your own personality
• Being comfortable around people irrespective of your flaws
• Being Attractive from the inside out
• Embracing your uniqueness while still relating to others
• Being socially skilled
• Effortlessly meeting new people
• Leaving a lasting, positive impression on people
• Recognising your own value and self worth
• Being more Sexual.
While everyone can benefit from a boost in Social Confidence, it is especially useful if you are:
• On the Dating Scene
• Socially anxious, phobic or shy
• Lacking in Confidence
How will the Guide help with
Social Anxiety?
The Guide to Social Confidence goes way beyond just
a treatment for Social Anxiety. One of the main
reasons that people struggle and often fail to
overcome social anxiety is that their whole aim is to
'not feel bad' or 'not feel anxious'
around people in certain situations. Rather than focus
on and learn how to do what they really
want...To be confident, comfortable and competent
around people.
The problem with most other programs out there is
that they operate from the mind set that just because
you feel unnecessarily anxious around people that
means you are in some way 'broken'. In fact
even calling Social Anxiety a 'disorder'
implies that you are in someway a faulty human being.
This is simply not true...The reason
The Guide to Social Confidence
is so effective is that it operates from the
opposite mind set. The mindset that you are in
fact working perfectly...You're just working
perfectly in the wrong direction. You are a
well oiled machine, you do your fears and
anxieties exceedingly well and all you really have to
do is to learn how to do something else...something
that will help you feel blissfully comfortable and
skilled around people...you need to learn
Social Confidence.
It's kind of like a muscle...up until now you've
been using and strengthening the wrong set of muscles.
You've bee doing it well but it hasn't been working
for you...Well now it's time to start using the ones
that really work to get you where you want so
that there's no longer any need to use the old ones...
That's where The Guide To
Social Confidence comes in. Using the latest
psychological change tools and social communication
skills you will find yourself building your Social
Confidence muscle. With the help of professional
therapists, world class coaches and leaders in their
field, you will find yourself making the changes on
the inside and building the neural pathways and
connections in your brain that will result in you
becoming more and more confident, competent and
attractive around people as each day passes.
How
will the Guide help with Dating?
We all know at least one person (usually a lot
more) who is not classically good looking but is still
tremendously attractive. We often describe these
people as just having 'Something about them'. A
mysterious quality that draws you in and makes you
want to know more about them and spend time with them.
The really good thing is we all have 'This
mysterious something' and
The Guide to Social Confidence is designed to
naturally bring this out. While obviously what someone
finds attractive varies from person to person, there
are certain vibes that are universally attractive...Vibes
that exist in everyone of us...we just don't always
notice them because of all the day to day
distractions, anxieties and fears.
The Guide to Social Confidence
will help you clear away all these distractions and
bring out your own personal attractive you so that you
start to draw the people you really want into
your lives whether that be dating or elsewhere...
So if you want to be Supremely Confident, Socially
Skilled and Attractive from the inside out...
The People's Coach Guide to
Social Confidence is the product for you...
Increasing your confidence
Many people today experience negative feelings when they find themselves in situations where they have to deal with strangers or members of the opposite sex. These feelings may result in an inability to relax, a lack of self worth and underlying social anxiety situations will bring to the fore. There have been numerous attempts to deal with this problem over the years but many of them proved to be ineffective for the majority of sufferers. The main stumbling block for a lot of people is that when they look for types of social anxiety therapy that will help them overcome their fears, they are led to believe they have something inherently wrong with them. When the problem is approached as a set of behavioural patterns that are learned over time it is possible, with Neuro Linguistic Programming, to offer a shyness and social anxiety cure, assisting people in overcoming it.
Taking the plunge
As with many issues that people face, the most important step in solving them is the very first. Seeking help is a positive move and, coupled with the realisation that you are not suffering from an incurable disease and that there are social anxiety disorder treatment options that really work, you can start to tackle the symptoms that are interfering with your daily life with renewed hope. The People's Coach Guide to Social Confidence is offered as a CD course that encapsulate the methods that people who have a social phobia events make worse, have found helped them the most. As they can be listened to in the comfort of your own home, they are a good way to begin the recovery process and have helped many people boost their self-confidence and improve romantic relationships. They offer real help for social anxiety sufferers and provide the support that they need.
Which
route will you choose?
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